Who Deserves your Trust?

Trust is not given overnight. At these times, it is difficult to easily trust someone because of the rampant atrocities in the society. You would never know that you can be under the claws of these predators that are planning to strip you off of your properties and other precious belongings.


There are numerous reports these days about people crying for help because their loved ones were taken away by someone who they thought are their friends. The sad part of being a victim of fraud is that you end up being helpless. It is only you who should be blamed because you easily give your trust you someone without doing any background check.


Potential criminals are roaming in the streets and you have no tool on how you can identify them from among the thousands of people you encounter in a day. They may seem nice and very accommodating but you have no way of telling on what goes in their minds. And you, who will be easily swayed by their theatrics and flowery words, will instantly put your trust to that someone. And before you know it, you are another victim of their scheme and other criminal acts. All that’s left for you to do is to ask for the help of the authorities who also seem powerless in solving these kinds of crimes. You will now be an addition to the growing statistics of fraud.


Remember that criminals are like politicians. They will do whatever it takes to get your trust and in the end, they will get all things that you hold precious. Take a look at the ads of these politicians. They seem to be very genuine in their quest for the country’s reform. But behind all these, they only want to acquire power and suck all the country’s wealth. The lesson now here is that you play vigilant in protecting your properties and loved ones from these people who design criminal acts. You will be the only one who will suffer if you let them into your life. So, a background check is a big plus against any criminal act.

The Thrill and Shrill of Marriage

Once upon a time women knew very little of the works of courtship. The gentlemen were only very aware of how women flowed with glorious beauty which left them enticed for the longest moment. Emotions for each one are dealt delicately with bribes of a thousand of lovely flowers, colors that favor the cunning eyes of his lover. Some are rather ravished, blooming with intensity as each day passes when one is away from the other. However, a young love elicits a shared love solemn and furious that often diminishes a person’s sense of reason. It is almost a defying act played and performed in front of a mocking crowed but still the performer would finish off with a loud approving applause. It may be likely that once upon a time all in love are dealt with virgin emotions filled with intensity, minus the reason, conventional rites and background check.

Moving on with time and proper decorum that often changes century after centuries, the love affair of man and woman remains a temper to be tamed. Neither of both parties’ gave enough attention to do a background check whether it’s for the others advantage or disadvantage to foresee a favorable future in the relationship. It wouldn’t hurt to snoop around to check if your man or woman is emotionally stable or that they are certainly equipped for marriage. Nowadays, there is a growing population of failing marriages because a couple are said to be incompatible. Finally, this failure to coexist ends in divorce, separation, battle with custody and the fight off of the infamous irreconcilable differences remarks.

In the past women were always in love with their men and men were always delighted for the attention. Both lived well even if what they have was only romance. Paper and ink was an insignificant creation. Love was a thrilling sensation among lovers and couples it never fails to excite other venturing observers. Marriage is an ancient tradition of two people that were thrilled by the shrilling pull of romance and companionship.

Missing and Unheard

Books and movies have time and again shown stories, both fictional and facts, about the timeless tales of crime and their victims. Stories like “Kiss the girls” (where beautiful and intelligent young women are kidnapped by the mysterious Casanova), and “Gone but not forgotten” are some of the most memorable tales of people being placed under the trust of those who happen to be the guilty, or those placed under wrong suspicions.

From domestic violence to those that even involves the government, time and again have we reflected on the situations that cause disturbances within our own home that there are times we don’t know whether we could even trust ourselves and the decisions we make. But of all the criminal activities ever committed the most troubling perhaps is that of the child kidnapping. Some are found; most are missing.

Kidnapping is detaining a person as hostage against his or her will. To picture a child being together with a kidnapper in an unknown room, nothing but plea for family is more than just a heartbreaking thought. The feeling of helplessness is but torture to the onlookers, more so for the family of the victim. For them it is death.

According to FBI’s National Crime Information Center (NCIC), the number of missing persons that was reported from 1982 to 2000 has increased at 468%. What is more staggering is the fact that there are even times that someone trusted and known, or more so related is the perpetrator himself. In the US, 49% are what we categorized as “family kidnapping”. “Acquaintance kidnapping” is 27%, while a “stranger kidnapping” ranks lowest with 24%.

There are ways that can help prevent this from happening. Doing a background check is one way that can secure the family. A Background check can be done through private investigators or through law enforcement themselves. There are even times that this has been great help in detecting a serial killer or kidnapper for that matter by means of their background both of family and, if there are, criminal. Even health has become an issue in going through a background check.

A family makes the greatest contribution in the community, and the child is its warmth. With a family in jeopardy the rest are shattered. There is nothing far more devastating than the unheard cries of the helpless victims of kidnapping—them missing and the rest unknowing whether they are dead or yet to be found.